Archive for November 2024

Being Content

November 30, 2024

 “I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.  I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry,whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all things through him (Jesus) who strengthens.” (Philippians 4:11-13)

The last cat we had, affectionately named Princess Malibu by our kids (or Boo for short!), loved to crawl up into our recliner and take an undisturbed nap. If I came into the room, Boo would stretch out her legs, flex her claws, yawn, and resume her slumber. She was a picture of contentment, not needing anything else. For a cat, contentment comes easy.

For people, it seems to be a fogged-in utopia that the ship never quite reaches. Contentment is a foreign language, undecipherable, undefinable word that is as misunderstood as a vegan carving the Thanksgiving turkey.

In a time of plenty, it seems that few people are content. More seems to be the remedy for their discontentment, except more never seems to be more enough. The epidemic of discontent has its tentacles in all the arenas of life.

Kids have become Amazon consumers. Their parents salivate for the next-level-up vehicle that the TV says will arrive in the driveway with a giant red bow on top. Instead of not being content with the level of their play, more and more college athletes aren’t content with their NIL money amount. Work production is down while employees’ discontentment with their wages is up. There is middle-class discontentment about the amount of taxes that the rich are paying, and discontement amongst the wealthy about the rumblings of them having to pay more taxes.

One needs to fetch high-powered binoculars to find people who are at peace with life, at peace with God, and content with their surroundings.

The Apostle Paul had lived life on the extremes, well-fed and hungry, with money in his pocket or even a wallet that was empty of any buying power. He had discovered that the strength of life was in the One who gave His life. Ironic as it seemed, contentment was connected to the One who hung on the cross. More money is not the answer, although there was a price that was paid.

I need to remember that the next time the high-priced BMW races by me through the school zone, or the next parent of one of my basketball players expresses discontentment about his daughter’s playing time or the lack of jump shots she is getting in game situations. I’ll nod my head, smile, and say to myself, “I can do all things through him who gives me strength.”

Cortisone Shot

November 11, 2024

Therefore, in order to keep me from becoming conceited, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me.” (2 Corinthians 12:7)

I tried to not look at the needle, but it was there, positioned in my Physician Assistant’s hand like a hornet with a long stinger. “You’ll feel a little sting,” he said as he proceeded to plunge the thin dagger into my knee. The cortisone flowed out and into my joint and then it was over.

It was bound to happen. About sixty years of playing basketball and running long-distances had brought me to this point. All the pounding on asphalt roads and sharp cuts made on the court had produced the arthritis that was getting more painful. This basketball season I had found it hard to assume my usual stance in front of our bench, which resembles a baseball catcher’s position. I found myself SITTING on the bench more than I ever have.

Sometimes a small pinch in the journey of life is a wake-up call about a person’s life situation. The poke of a needle is necessary to avoid unnecessary pain. Truth be told, many of us avoid the pinch and try to pretend there will be no pain.

My “pinch” is the person who will tell me the truth…when I’ve come off as harsh with one of my grandkids…or when I’ve avoided talking to someone because I dread it…or when someone asks me matter-of-fact how healthy my walk with the Lord is…or bluntly informs me that what I said was self-centered and ignorant.

All of us need that pincher who brings momentary pain for long-term health. Like Nathan confronting David with his sin and saying, “You are the man!” (2 Samuel 12:7).

The thing is those who pinch us don’t get invited to many parties or are asked to come over for Thanksgiving Dinner. Confronting is much more risky for the truth-teller than the one told the truth.

I trusted that my P.A. knew exactly what he was doing, that the needle of redemption was in his hand and he was doing what needed to be done. We wish the Paul would give a few more juicy details about what the thorn was that kept irritating him. “A messenger of Satan” sounds pretty dark! But maybe that messenger caused Paul to look within, to come to grips with his new identity in Christ, and to have the resolve to meet the enemies of the gospel without fear.

Who would have thought a poke, a pinch, could have such positive effects?

No-Big-Deal Cheating

November 3, 2024

“The Lord detests dishonest scales, but accurate weights find favor with him. When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom. The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity.” (Proverbs 11:1-3)

When New York Yankees’ fan, Austin Capobianco, grabbed the glove and baseball off of Mookie Betts’ hand, it was applauded by many of the hometown fans while millions watching the World Series game on TV reached for the rewind button on their remote control. Capobianco was toasted as a hometown hero while everyone else roasted him as just another crazy lunatic sports fanatic…who always seem to be able to get into the stadium’s front row.

Cheating in sports has a long history. Basketball backboards came into existence because hometown fans were reaching over the balcony railing and swatting the visiting team’s shots away. The backboard brought fairness.

Scuffing the baseball has been used by a multitude of pitchers to get movement on their throws. In 1987, Joe Niekro had an emery board in his back pocket that went flying when the umpire told him to prove he had nothing in it. The comical scene of Niekro declaring his innocence as the scuffing tool went flying in the air some six feet away is a favorite YouTube watch.

And how about Rosie Ruiz, who joined the Boston Marathon from the crowd in 1980 and pretended that she had won the race? Or Tom Brady’s “Deflategate”, where an underinflated football was used to give his receivers and his grip on the ball advantages? Or the steroids problem? Or flopping in basketball and fake injuries in professional soccer games?

As sports have become a dominant feature of our society, and with it, the emphasis on winning at all costs, seeking unfair advantages…that is, cheating…has become almost part of the game. The integrity of the game has been pushed to the side for the victory of the team. Some of the coaches that we’re most enamored with have had episodes of cheating that get brushed to the side so the focus can return to their win-loss record. I appreciate coaches like Tony Bennett of the Virginia Cavaliers, who just recently retired. His main reason was that he had a growing discomfort with what was happening in college basketball. He didn’t like what he was seeing and was not willing to sacrifice his values, and morals for the new recipe for success.

Integrity is a term that must be treasured by each person, coaches and players alike. “Doing the right thing when no one is watching” is a good definition of integrity. Being a person of good character is who we want our children to marry as opposed to a cheat who values conquest more than relationships.

As the proverb says, “…the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity.” In other words, it’s going to catch up to them sooner or later…so why not do the right thing to start with?